Well, the last day of school has come and gone (again) and summer is now upon us. This year was bitter sweet as we wished many well who were retiring this year from Pinewood Elementary School. I arrived that day with the goal of documenting the last day of one teacher in particular, Charlie Ferris. Charlie’s teaching career spanned 36 years, 24 of which were teaching kindergarten at Pinewood. It would be easy to underestimate Charlie with his calm demeanor, but as the saying goes: “still waters run deep”. And it is a good thing given how many of us have gone to that well over these many years.
My daughters, Jaz and Ember were lucky to have him for their transition into “school”. What we loved about Charlie was his determined effort to keep kindergarten full of fun and playtime; to allow the kids imaginations to blossom free of the constraints of our own limitations. The kids in his class learned about the world around them by being out in it. His gentle combination of love and firmness gave both my daughters a strong foundation and a love for learning.
The book Charlie chose for his final “storytime hoorah” was The Giving Tree. This story “follows a friendship between a growing boy and a tree. The story begins as the tree is full grown and healthy and the boy is very young. The tree provides the child with shade, apples and a branch to hang a swing on. As the boy gets older he asks more of the tree and is never turned down. Eventually the boy, who has now become a man, cuts the tree down in order to make a boat, to which the tree does not protest. Many years later, the man returns old and withered to the tree, which has nothing left but a stump. The man requests that he be allowed to sit and rest on the stump while he waits for his death.The tree once again, happily gives him what is requested.” From Charlie’s perspective it is a story of “long term friendship, of unconditional love, through thick and thin. It is how I feel about my kindergartners, and I always hope they will remember it”. With his family, friends and students gathered around him, he read the final words of the story: “The End”. As those words reverberated through the room, there was a collective moment of realization that we all shared – both joyous and sad – that this wonderful era had come to an end…there was not a dry eye in the room.
Like the tree in the story, Charlie has given so much of himself over the years, and still provides the strength to help root our community. Like the boy in the story, our children have grown up around him, using the strength, wisdom and friendship that Charlie so willingly and unconditionally shares. Now Charlie would never see it that way – he credits the kids for bringing him new perspectives each and every day. Any wisdom gained he credits to the children’s unspoiled, unlimited imagination.
We look forward to many more shared adventures as Charlie enters this new phase of his life. No doubt, this community will all continue to be graced by Charlie’s friendship and wisdom.
(blog post written by Lisa Richmond and Jeff Leddy, story synopsis borrowed from Mahalo.com)
Classic morning Charlie…going over the calendar, the new missing teeth and the weather…
A gift from his final kindergarten class
Charlie is touched by a gift from parents and friends ( I was so moved that I stopped taking photos and took in the moment- this is the only one I have)
The whole class took the roll call to the office, “go together, stay together, come back together”
the class giving Jen the roll
Ember telling Charlie about the weather outside
Charlie and Ember report the weather to the class along with the standard assorted tales of “polar bears and penguins on the playground”
After lunch, the final storytime……
Charlie’s whole family joined him…this is one of Charlie’s daughters, Lena joining the the final storytime
Charlie Ferris in his chair
The goodbyes start
and continue
and continue
The final “goodbye” tradition at Pinewood
pretty much sums up Ember and kindergarten
Jaz and her fabulous teacher, Sandi Nakabayashi
Charlie’s son Nathan, taking off with my camera!
bye.
Charlie’s family
We’ll all miss you!
from Charlie, “I got a fresh perspective on how the universe works, every day, for 24 years. I will miss it terribly, but it is time for me to go. It has been a long journey. “
8 comments
Mr. Farris was my kindergarten teacher more than 20 years ago. He was indeed my favorite teacher then and remained so for the remainder of my educational life. I have never forgotten him. I have him and Mrs. McDonald – my 2nd grade teacher in Pollock Pines – to thank for inspiring me to teach.
What an awesome tribute to a wonderful and rare teacher! His style was different and unique and quite wonderful. Children and parents alike fell in love with Charlie! My son, Adam had the pleasure and good fortune to be one of Charlie’s kindergarteners. He was a tearful little 5 year old when he entered his classroom. Charlie had such a special way in dealing with him that was so tender and loving. He will never forget his kindergatren teacher! He is now 26 years old! We look forward to seeing Charlie around town for years to come!!! Congrats on your retirement, Charlie! Great to see the family also!!!
Lisa,
I want to thank you for the beautiful tribute to Charlie. It was, as usual, so touching and wonderful, as is all your work. I continue to be in awe of your art and talent in capturing such special moments. It has provided a very special avenue to reach out to the community that Charlie has devoted his teaching career to. The family picture you sent to Charlie will be a very special keepsake forever. I send hugs and thanks for all you’ve done and your generosity!
Jacee Ferris
Rita Brooks Ferdon
That was wonderful, Lisa! ♥ Even though Holly did not have him as a teacher, I was always touched that everytime he saw her, he said “Hello, Holly”, and knew her name. He is a very special man, & I will miss hearing him start everyday “Okay, Kings and Queens of Kindergarten…” (We heard that alot because we were always running a little late!) He will be very pleased when he sees your tribute!
Rebekah Allison Blair
I saw it last night and our whole family looked at it. Thanks so much for putting all the pictures up we all really enjoyed see his smiling face. John actually started crying after look at it. And it made my whole family really miss pollock.
I will never forget Kindergarten Orientation 18(?) years ago when we were preparing to send our oldest child off to school. Zachary was ready for new challenges, but it was all new to my husband and I and we were a bit nervous & unsure! Charlie spoke to a group of parents about his background, life experiences (i.e. being a veteran), education, etc., and then he stated that “the kindergarten classroom is THE Most Important Place for me to be” (or something to that effect!). Well, that true & heartfelt sentiment was all he needed to say to reassure us that our son would be in great hands!
Happy Retirement Charlie!
Appreciation & Hugs from the Leconte Family
Lisa, What a wonderful tribute to a great teacher! Suzanne shared teaching duties with him for many years until she graduated to 1st, 2nd then 3rd. We have always loved Mr. Ferris. You did such a wonderful story. It was very hard to see through the tears.
some comments received:
Sara O’Grady
Lisa~He is on Facebook, but not sure how often he uses it, but luckily I do use it on a daily basis and can pass on any comments onto him. Thank you so much for documenting his last day. I had a hard time reading through the tears by then end of your blog. Thank you!
Kris Chapel Spiegelberg
Lisa that was absolutely beautiful. I cried. My children did not have him as their personal teacher. But he has touched our lives just by knowing him. He is a very lovely person indeed!!
Tina Hamilton Comer
Oh Lisa that is amazing! I have had the blessing of Charlie teaching 3 of my 4 children, two of which now grown. He was, is and always will be one of the greatest gifts to have entered my life.